Tarot and Sexuality

Unveil the Secrets of Your Love Life with a Tarot Reading

Sexuality is woven throughout the tarot deck, reflecting the complex and intimate aspects of our lives. Tarot readings are primarily for adults, as they delve into topics that often revolve around relationships, finances, work, and travel. Among these, love and intimacy frequently take centre stage. Whether it’s a burning question about a current partner or the potential of meeting someone new, tarot can provide profound insights.

Explore Sexuality Through Tarot

The Major Arcana cards are particularly powerful when exploring themes of sexuality, especially when combined with Court cards that represent the querent or their love interest. Every tarot reading is deeply contextual—what might seem like a simple card can reveal layers of meaning depending on the individual’s circumstances.

Some clients seek simple reassurance, like confirmation they will meet a “gentleman friend.” Others, however, desire deeper insights into their intimate lives. For instance, I once had a client ask about her new lover. When the Devil card appeared, I casually mentioned the possibility of bondage. Her reaction—eyes lighting up with excitement—revealed just how much this resonated with her expectations.

Here’s a breakdown of how some of the Major Arcana cards might relate to sexuality:

The Fool

The Fool symbolises the beginning of a new sexual journey, whether it’s the loss of virginity or the excitement of discovering a new lover. This card speaks to stepping into uncharted sexual territory, embracing new and original experiences, and being open to an exciting or unpredictable partner.

The Magus

The Magus represents the power of communication in romantic and sexual relationships. This card might suggest sexting, writing erotic letters, or exploring different aspects of sexuality, such as bisexuality. It highlights the connection between words and desire.

The High Priestess

The High Priestess reflects the natural ebb and flow of sexual energy. This card is linked to spiritual sex, where intimacy is seen as a pathway to deeper spiritual understanding, or it might point to periods of sexual abstinence, where restraint plays a significant role in personal growth.

The Empress

The Empress indicates indulgence in passionate, creative, or procreative sex. It might represent encounters driven by the desire to create life or intimate connections with a married partner, emphasising the nurturing and abundant aspects of sexuality.

The Emperor

The Emperor suggests relationships defined by power dynamics. This card can point to sexual connections with an older partner, an authority figure, or someone in a position of control. It embodies the structured, disciplined side of intimacy, where dominance and influence are key themes.

The Hierophant

The Hierophant often represents traditional and conventional approaches to love and sexuality. This card can indicate sex within the confines of marriage, teaching an inexperienced partner, or relationships with religious figures like priests. It can also point to sexual experiences that are routine or passionless, reflecting the more perfunctory aspects of intimacy. Additionally, the Hierophant might suggest marriage proposals, wife swapping, or seeking religious guidance on matters of love and sexuality.

The Lovers

The Lovers card explores the dynamics between two people deeply connected by similar interests or outlooks. It can signify lovers who live near each other or share a close bond. This card is also linked to the exchange of affection through writing love letters, texting, or making phone calls. It might even hint at love between siblings or deliver news about a lover.

The Chariot

The Chariot signifies control and domination in sexual relationships. It might represent encounters that occur in unusual locations, such as during travel or on a plane—the infamous ‘Mile High Club’. This card can also reflect sexual obsessions, particularly those rooted in complex parental relationships, or more daring activities like dogging.

Lust

Lust speaks to the intensity of passionate love affairs. It can also signify more taboo aspects of sexuality, such as bestiality or sex magick, especially when linked to power, royalty, or status. This card is often associated with taking sexual risks or engaging in group activities like orgies.

The Hermit

The Hermit reflects a more solitary approach to sexuality, including abstinence, masturbation, or having a secret lover. This card might also point to feelings of loneliness, secret passions, or obsessions that are kept hidden. In some cases, it can represent an affair with a work colleague or the need for counselling on intimate matters.

Fortune

Fortune can signify the use of sex for political gain or within relationships involving powerful or wealthy individuals. This card also represents changes in romantic partners or the excitement of a whirlwind romance that sweeps through one’s life.

Adjustment

Adjustment often relates to the legal aspects of relationships and sexuality. This card can indicate a legal marriage, or the search for an attractive or ideal partner. It might also represent sexual encounters with legal professionals, such as lawyers or judges, or highlight the complexities of divorce and the demand for conjugal rights. You might even find a lover at a wedding or within a legal setting.

The Hanged Man

The Hanged Man represents suffering in silence within a relationship, often highlighting abusive dynamics or the sacrifices one makes for a partner. It can also signify the fruitless waiting for someone to enter one’s life, or the pain of loss, such as the death of a partner or the aftermath of an abortion.

Death

Death is a powerful card that can symbolize the end of a relationship or the intense emotions that come with it. It might indicate sexual experiences tied to secrecy or financial transactions, as well as the discovery of sexual diseases or hidden truths.

Art

Art reflects a view of sexuality as a higher calling or spiritual practice, perhaps involving a Guru. This card can also represent holiday romances or relationships with foreign partners. It might point to complex sexual relationships with multiple partners, difficulties in managing a relationship, or the creation of pornography. The union of opposites is another theme often linked to this card.

The Tower

The Tower represents the destructive forces within a relationship, such as domination, violence, or abuse. It can also reveal shocking truths about a partner’s sexuality, including infidelity or scandals in high places. Relationships associated with military personnel might also fall under the influence of this card.

The Devil

The Devil is a card of intense and often suffocating relationships, where bondage, domination, or subjugation plays a role. It might also signify a corporate love affair, involvement in the sex industry, or the complexities of relationships within a brothel. Obsession with a boss or superior is another potential interpretation.

The Star

The Star offers a vision of inspirational or unconventional sex. It can represent seeing someone as more of a friend than a lover, or desiring a romantic connection with an acquaintance. This card might also suggest cybersex, flirting, or finding a lover at a social event. It’s often linked to homosexuality, fetishism, or attending a fetish party.

The Sun

The Sun represents a joyful and stable sexual relationship, often involving a partner who is rich or famous. This card might also hint at using sexual connections to gain publicity or fame.

The Moon

The Moon delves into the realm of sexual fantasies, fears, or phobias. It can reflect confusion in relationships, infidelity, or ambiguous sexuality. This card is also connected to the practice of sex-magic, where sexuality and mysticism intertwine.

Aeon

Aeon is a card of decision-making within relationships. It can highlight an inability to address relationship issues, problems with timing, or the feeling that there isn’t enough time to fully nurture a relationship.

The Universe

The Universe often signifies the end of a love affair, or the fulfilment of one’s deepest desires. It might represent the object of one’s obsession, experiences with anal sex, or love affairs that occur during holidays or in foreign countries.

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